Thursday, May 2, 2019

15) 三朝回门 After 3 days of marry (San Chao Hui Men)


是婚后第三天,新由夫婿陪同下,带备烧猪及礼品回娘家祭祖。男家须带备烧猪一只﹝喻新娘的贞洁﹞、西两盒、酒一、竹蔗两支、、生菜、生果两、葱、伊面两盒、仔灯金、猪肚及猪肉各两斤。女家回礼的通常是男家送来礼物的一半,其中以猪最重要,、尾及手脚各一和猪舌半,并放利是在猪盆上。


化方法:
大部份可用利是代替﹝烧猪除外,回门烧猪宜在女家附近订购可于即日出,或第二天回,但却不可超三天。而即日回,是指新人在男家拜天地及翁姑后,便即返回娘家,行回式,之后再返男家或直接到酒楼。事上,即日回的好可省,一次利用已租来的花、裙褂,新娘亦毋再另找型及化妆师,又可在翌日开始蜜月旅程。



On the third days after marriage, the couple will go back to the bride’s house to pray her ancestor. Thing to bring along are: a roast pig, two boxes of cakes, 2 wine, a pair of sugar cane, a pair of chicken, lettuce, 2 baskets of fruits, onion, Lantern, two pounds of pork belly and pork. In return the bride’s family going to share the entire thing in half with the groom.

Simplified method:
All the thing which need to bring along can be replace by a red packet ”ang pow”.

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